Tuesday, November 26, 2013

The Flaws of the Jedi Code

Ok, letting out my inner nerd lately, so I figured I would write a blog about something that has bothered my inner nerd for a while. The Jedi Code. This blog will address the five line version of the Jedi code.

But first, a little background on why I am writing this. In my opinion, the Jedi are no good guys. No, they are not bad guys or evil by any definition of the words, but they are not good guys either. It is their code that makes them this way, creating a cold and indifferent view of the galaxy. When you hear about a Jedi doing something that is unlike a Jedi, it is usually out of an act of kindness or empathy for the people around them. I will also be discussing the lack of logic within the lines, "Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering," and why someone with the famous wisdom of Yoda would never really utter such nonsense.

All this being said, I would like to say that I absolutely LOVE Star Wars and the Star Wars universe. I am just shy of what one may call a "fan boy." I say just shy because it is my belief that true love of the originals demands hatred of the prequels. A fan boy likes all the movies simply because of the Star Wars brand, dismissing such reasonable demands such as quality and continuity.

Let's begin,

There is no emotion, there is peace.

This is the first line of the Jedi code. It means that a Jedi is to avoid emotion and emotional attachments. Instead, they are to embrace peace. This means peace of mind. No fear, love, hate, joy, excitement, anger, and so on. Basically, the first line is a redundancy, saying in effect, "there is no emotion, there is a lack of emotion."

First and foremost, a lack of emotion is impossible without mental illness, and even then the mental illness tends to show a lack of empathy and compassion with an abundance of anger and malice. Second, if one is truly trained to not feel emotion, and actually has no ability to feel it, they will have no idea what is right, wrong, moral, immoral, ethical, or unethical. Human beings (of which there have been plenty of Jedi) rely on emotional responses to stimuli to tell us what is right or wrong. If we see a person hurting another, and it stirs negative emotions in us, this means that we do not like what we are seeing. We see the event as wrong.

Now that, that is out of the way, let's get into Star Wars. We see Jedi laugh, joke, smile, have emotional outbursts, taunt, and so on. All of these actions are those of people feeling emotion. When Yoda sighs, and says, "I cannot train him, he has no patience" in reference to Luke, he is expressing several emotions, such as frustration and disappointment. When Obi Wan lets out a screaming "NO!" as he witnesses the fall of Qui Gon, this is an emotional response. When Obi Wan speaks fondly of Anakin, to Luke, calling him a "dear friend" this is emotional attachment. So, either the Jedi simply do not honor this part of the code, or the person who authored the sentiment of it simply did not understand human emotion

NOTE: Now, I know someone reading this might want to say, "Anakin told Padme that the Jedi are allowed to feel compassion." I have two things to say to this. First, it was Anakin trying to convince Padme that he is allowed to love. Second, Anakin was incorrect if the code is to be followed. Compassion is an emotion, and remember, there is no emotion.

There is no ignorance, there is knowledge.

This is another redundancy, "there is no ignorance, there is a lack of ignorance." Ignorance is the lack of knowledge, and knowledge is the lack of ignorance. This of course applies to specifics, and this is where the problem within the code lies. The code speaks of ignorance and knowledge in a sweeping generalization. Even after 800 years of training Jedi, Yoda would be challenged in a great many tasks of which he has not done or even been exposed to. In short, this part of the code is nonsensical because of its generalization of ignorance and knowledge.

There is no passion, there is serenity.

Ok, this is where the over all flaw of the "logic" of  the Jedi is first exposed. This is nothing more then a repeat of the first line. Passion being intense emotion, and serenity being calm or peace.

There is no chaos, there is harmony.

Chaos is conflict within a group, harmony is synchronization within a group, or the opposite of chaos. Yes, another redundancy. In the code, it again is in the context of the mind. No chaos in the mind. Few, if any, Jedi have been depicted violating this part of the code. In fact, it would be completely out of character for the so-called heroes of the Star Wars universe to be shown panicking. So, this one, I classify as a gimme, which begs the question of why some feel to ad this line in. This is the additional, fifth line not present in the four line version.

There is no death, there is the Force.

Short and sweet, this falls into the category of Star Wars lore. However, the death of Jedi is mention numerous times within the movies, with little reference to them "becoming one with the force."

Now for the inherent flaw of the Jedi code, and Jedi logic that makes the code so nonsensical. It falls under the circular logic or circular reasoning fallacy.

"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering" is circular because the speakers wishes to convey the idea that fear is bad and of the dark side and therefore to be avoided. So, the speaker creates a chain of circular reasoning that shows, validly how fear is bad. Unfortunately, the same sort of chain can be used to show how fear is good.

"Fear leads to caution, caution leads to thought, thought leads to knowledge." Therefore, fear is good?

A big resounding no, fear is not good, nor is it bad. Fear simply is. Specific fear can be good or bad. Fear of spiders can be good because it leads one to avoid all spiders, including the ones that can actually do harm. Fear of failure is bad because it causes one to avoid attempting anything to avoid failure. But fear, in and of itself is not good or bad, it is simply one of many human emotional responses to stimuli.

The genius of Luke Skywalker

Luke Skywalker, at least in the expanded universe seems to agree with these ideas, because he creates the Jedi Creed, to replace the Jedi Code. It is as follows:

Jedi are the guardians of peace in the Galaxy.

The first thing to note is the choice of words here, "guardians of peace." They are not warriors for peace, defenders of peace, fighters for peace; they are guardians of peace. A guardian is a protector. So, the Jedi protect and preserve peace. How, you say?

Jedi use their powers to defend and protect, never to attack others.

One of the things Yoda told Luke that became a part of the creed. This is how they protect and preserve peace. By not violating it. They defend against violator of peace, and protect those who cannot defend themselves.

Jedi respect all life, in any form.

This is post the whole "midichlorine" nonsense. Jedi respect all life because they respect the force, which binds all life together.

Jedi serve others rather than rule over them, for the good of the Galaxy.

Another beautifully worded line. They serve others, rather then rule over them. They do not make the rules, they live a life of servitude. BUT, only for the good of the galaxy. Therefore not serving those, whether in they be in positions of authority or not, that seek to do harm in the galaxy.

Jedi seek to improve themselves through knowledge and training.

And finally, a noncircular, non-redundant, and meaningful code of conduct. Jedi seek to improve themselves. This means they recognize they are not perfect, not better then others. They do so through knowledge, and the attainment thereof through training.

 

 

 

 

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Too Late, They Say

Too Late, They Say
 
When is it too late? Some say when you're
too old. When the years behind you sum up
to more then the years ahead. When you
look at a clock ticking away, are you on
schedule for the passing of time itself? Are you
behind schedule for your death? Your life?
 
It is five in the morning now, and now
it is not. Can you pause time? Can you
reach into the sky and halt the Moon's
decent? Can you grip the stone of the
Earth and sill it's rotation? Can you snuff
out the Sun, to cause eternal darkness?
 
If we cannot control the passing of time,
how are we to judge it? Who are we to tell
time that it has caused us grief over our
undone works? Our undone good deeds?
Too late, they say to achieve dreams turned
ambitions. Weakness and fear, I say, that
causes they to stop and cast judgment
over that which they have no control.
 


My Friend

My Friend
 
Lament is my companion, my friend
 Love, a passing yet lasting burden.
I have loved, I have seen the smile
that forged a beating heart from steal.
I know it to this day, that love that aches,
that burns and boils. That love
that goes unpublished therefore unreturned.
 
Lament is my companion, my friend.
I have looked into eyes that grinned,
that knew my core. They
never saw my shame, my sorrow at
having lost their daily glimpse. They
never saw the sting brought on
by knowing their beauty no more.
 
Lament is my companion, my friend.
I have heard the sound of beauty,
a voice cherished. The spoken word
had never known such prestige, such
guiding elegance. A dance of tone and rhythm
never to be heard again. Not by me; no
more music for my heart to dance to.
 
Lament is my companion, my friend.
Absence is all that is left; no more
warmth of contact, of convergence. Within,
the burning love a pyre of anguish. Without, the
body aches will the chilled bite of regret
upon every sight, upon every sound,
upon every thought.


Monday, January 21, 2013

For Fun: My ideal or dream Star Trek crew!

My Star Trek dream crew!

Captain: Jean Luc Picard: Now I know some say Kirk is king, and they are right, but as far as captains are concerned, Picard would be my pick. He exudes authority, and commands the respect of everyone he is in authority over.

First Officer: Spock: Spock would make the perfect counter part for Picard. Picard is driven by his passions and tempered with the prime directive. Spock would bring not only his logic, but his own form of passion and compassion that no other first officer has been able to replicate or stand up to.

Science Officer: Data of course! Who else would fill the role? Spock is already the first officer.

Con/ Helm Officer: Tom Paris: the flyboy himself. a sense of adventure combined with unmatched skill. Daring and charming. yes, I said charming. he's the guy you can trust to have your back in a fire fight with the borg then go skirt chasin' at Quarks after.

Chief engineer: Geordi La'forge; Geordi was the master, 'nuff said.

Chief Medical Officer: Dr. Phlox: Now, incase you don't know who that is, Phlox was the doctor on board the NX-01 Enterprise. He had an outlook that a ships doctor should have, he was as much an explorer as any other crew member of any other series, and he was also an unconventional doctor. Not to mention he had a grin that was not only warming, but creepy.

Chief of Security: Worf, son of Mohg: An intimidating presence, comical seriousness, disciplined warrior mentality, master with a batlef (or however its spelled), and dry sense of humor. What else do you need in a security chief?

Communications Officer: Its tough to say this because I love Uhura, but I'd have to go with Hoshi Sato. She was out of her comfort zone in the beginning, being little more then a translator. She demonstrated the difficulty of her job better the Uhura did, earning more respect for the position. Of course, it was earlier in the Trek time line with less sophisticated tech, but Uhura was too good, and made it look too easy. Hoshi was more human.

Now, that makes up the typical series crew, or at least the typical number of primary characters. Let's look at allies and villains.

Number one Ally: The Klingons: The Klingons would bring some excitement into a series, with more common reoccurring characters. The warrior race would make the show a bit more action packed then typical, as is made evident any time they are primary characters in multi episodic series'.

Villains: An alliance of Romulans and Cardassians would make the perfect match against the Federation and the Klingons. In fact, they might even be a bit too much to handle at times, allowing for a more believable give and take, win some lose some, type of progression.

Honorable mentions: These are characters that don't exactly fit in the mold of the typical 7-8 primary trek motif, but none-the-less deserve a spot on my dream crew;

Seven of Nine: um.. because she's tough, smart, and oh so sexy.
Quark: I don't know where he'd fit in on a crew of a ship, but his very nature would make the crew a bit more well, human, as opposed to super human.
Neelix: Now, I have to admit, I didn't like this character at first. But he grew on me and became the heart of the Voyager crew. Put him and Phlox on the same ship, and I'm sure many a tear jerker episodes could come.
Miles O'brien: Because every ship needs an Irishman.

Honorable mentions, allys: I couldn't complete this without mentioning the Andorians. Once an obscure race in Star Trek, they were made very cool in Enterprise, and in fact got a lot of that coolness from the one reoccurring Andorian, Commander Shran played by Trek alum alien actor, Jeffery Combs who also played many other reoccurring alien characters in DS9 such as Weyoun, Brunt, Mirror Brunt, and Detective Kevin Mulkahey, and he played Penk, the primary antagonist, in the Voyager episode Tsunkatse.

Honorable mentions, Villains: Ok, I don't remember what they are called other then "genetically enhanced" people. Kahn was one, and we saw others in Enterprise. The fact that they are genetically enhanced, making them smarter, stronger, and just plain superior in nearly every way makes them a great choice as reoccurring villains. The eugenics wars would be a great watch if any series had the nerve and adequately lowered balls to try to pull it off correctly.

War On a Country Builder

Introduction

            The United States is a free country. This means that the people are free to do as they please so long as what they do does not infringe upon the rights of another citizen. This means that the people of the United States have certain rights that are not granted, but protected by the United States Constitution. The freedom of speech; a right many take for granted and invoke for many reasons. The right to keep and bare arms; another right protected by the U.S. Constitution. The right to practice what ever religious beliefs the individual citizen chooses, and the right to not be subjected to laws based in any religion. These and many other rights are in constant battle with policy makers and each other; the people always seeking a balance between their rights and the rights of others. In some the balance is not there, in others some may argue too much freedom is granted.

            One right not mentioned with any specificity is the right to do with and to our bodies what ever we choose. This has caused a lot of debate and controversy. The woman's right to have an abortion hears the pro choice side saying that they have the right to do with their own bodies as they choose. Prostitution, the "oldest profession in the world," also sees arguments that are similar, being touted as a victimless crime. These issues have been and still are in constant debate and controversy, with the federal government taking a neutral stance, allowing individual states to make their own laws. One action, drug use, is not considered by the federal government to be up to the states. Federal drug laws are enforced, regardless of state policies. One drug has created a prison population that is over flowing with otherwise law abiding citizens; productive in every day life, able to keep jobs, take care of children, and get along with other people in a shared community. This drug, not even a narcotic by definition, once a backbone of American industry, made illegal for nefarious reasons, never credibly linked with any illness or side effect, and kept illegal through rhetoric and logical fallacy is marijuana.

Part 1: History of Marijuana

            In the United States today, there are many laws surrounding drugs, criminal laws that lead to the arrest of thousands of individual citizens every year. Citizens who sell, who use, who are addicted to different drugs, illegal and otherwise. None of these laws have worked to lower drug addiction, drug sales, drug use, or fulfilled any touted purpose for that law. The most effective law, written in 1906, is not even a criminal law, but lead to the most significant lowering of drug addiction in US history; the Pure Food and Drug Act (Whitebread, 1995). This law created the Food and Drug Administration, made certain drugs available only through prescription, and required habit forming drugs to have a warning on the label of the potential for addiction. The first criminal law in regards to drugs was the Harrison Act, written in 1914, which covered "only opium, morphine and it various derivatives, and derivatives of the coca life..." (Whitebread, 1995). The Harrison Act did not criminalize the use or even sales of these drugs, but regulated them to nothing more then a tax. So those who were in violation of the law were not because of possession or use, but were charged with tax evasion when they did not pay the very high taxes required by congress for each transaction. Doctor's enjoyed a minimal tax to pay each year in order to prescribe the drugs, while citizens were required to pay a ridiculous amount per transaction that a doctor's prescription was not involved in.

            The first law to criminalize marijuana was a Utah state law. The law itself was passed to respect the states dominant religion, Mormonism. The Mormon church hit some rough patches that made some members who wanted to practice their religion in more traditional fashion, where the men were allowed more then one wife, left the country for northern Mexico. After failing to convert the populace there, some went back to Utah and brought marijuana with them. The church soon said marijuana use violated their doctrine, and the state soon passed laws in direct respect to that doctrine (Whitebread, 1995). What followed were 26 other states, the southwest region criminalizing marijuana for the simple reason that Mexican immigrants smoked it and were seen as lesser people. In the northeast, some states passed laws as a preeminent measure out of fear of it being used to substitute what was illegal at the time by those addicted to the illegal drugs and alcohol. All 27 states criminalized marijuana between 1915 and 1937.

            In 1937 the Marihuana Tax Act was passed and signed into law by President Roosevelt. The one motivation of this act was to prohibit the growth of hemp in America. What led to it is a short story of obvious ulterior motives, ignoring quality information, and plain and simple lying. First, the hearing at congress, the first step to passing a law, was very short, having only three bodies of testimony (Whitebread, 1995).  The first testimony was given by the head of the Federal Bureau of Narcotics, Harry Anslinger. He said, "Marihuana is an addictive drug which produces in its users insanity, criminality, and death." The second body of testimony came from industry, the first of this testimony was given by someone within the rope industry. They were involved because hemp was grown in the United States for the production of rope. He said that hemp would be cheaper to import from the far east then to grow locally. The paint and varnish people said they could use something else. The birdseed people opposed the act, but then were made exempt from it so they could still use denatured marijuana seeds to produce bird feed. Finally came the medical testimony, given from two sources. The first was a pharmacologist at Temple University who claimed to have injected into the brains of 300 dogs the active ingredient of marijuana and that two of the dogs died. When asked if the dogs were chosen because of the similarities of their reactions to that of humans, the pharmacologist responded, "I wouldn't know, I am not a dog psychologist."

            The second medical testimony was given by Dr. William C. Woodward, who was both a lawyer and a doctor. Dr. Woodward was also the Chief Counsel to the American Medical Association. His testimony was as follows, "The American Medical Association knows of no evidence that marihuana is a dangerous drug" (Whitebread, 1995). Immediately following this, one congressman said to him, "Doctor, if you can't say something good about what we are trying to do, why don't you go home?" Another congressman said, "Doctor, if you haven't got something better to say than that, we are sick of hearing you." Despite the objections of the American Medical Association, the bill was passed out of committee on to the floor of Congress. When the Republicans asked the speaker what the bill was about, he told them he did not know, it has something to do with a thing called marihuana, and that he thought it was a narcotic of some kind. When the Republicans asked if the American Medical Association supported the bill, a member of the committee who supported the bill stood up, remember the doctor's name was Woodward, and said, "Their doctor Wentworth came down here. They support the bill 100 percent." That was good enough for the Republicans. The bill was passed and signed into law by President Roosevelt.

            What followed was a circus of murder trials where defense claimed not guilty by reason of marijuana induced insanity. In one case, the same pharmacologist who tested on dogs was called in as an expert witness and claimed he had used the drug on himself and was turned into a bat. In all the cases where this defense was used, the defendant was found not guilty by reason of insanity. Anslinger, who had disgraced himself earlier by wanting to round up jazz musicians for using the drug, wrote to that pharmacologist telling him that if he did not stop testifying he would no longer be the FBN's expert. No more cases occurred where that defense was used. In 1951 the Boggs Act was passed. After medical experts had once again contradicted Anslinger's claims, and Anslinger himself said that his original claims were not accurate, but that marijuana use leads to the use and addiction to heavier drugs, the Boggs Act was passed to increase the severity of punishments across the board in drug violations. In 1956, the Daniels Act was passed, which once again created even harsher punishments for drug violations. In 1969 the Dangerous Substances Act was passed, altering the way we punish drug violations, including making certain ones less harsh for the first time in US history, as well as classifying every drug we know of, except of course for tobacco and alcohol, into two categories; what is the drugs medical use and what is its potential for abuse? This is how the United States regulates drugs today. Never having seriously readdressed marijuana without industry bias.

Part 2: Marijuana Today

            By definition, a narcotic is a drug that puts an individual to sleep (Whitebread, 1995).  This leads to the conclusion that most drugs used for recreational purposes are not in fact narcotics. This would include marijuana. Legal professionals still refer to the drugs for which they arrest people as narcotics, whether this is done as a simple misnomer or for a more nefarious reason is unknown and quite moot other then to set the stage for drug laws today. Today they are as they were in 1969, with various degrees for which a person can be charged, from simple possession to distribution, and what constitutes each charge in individual cases.

Part 3: Marijuana Fact vs. Fallacy

            The most likely danger of marijuana use would be damage to the lungs. Smoking marijuana is as it sounds, the inhalation of smoke produced from burning it, usually in a cigarette or from a pipe. While the inhalation of smoke is dangerous regardless of what is burning, the effort here is to contrast it with the legal use of tobacco. Tobacco use has been linked with many diseases, most being forms of cancer. One noncancerous disease that effects most smokers is chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (Tan et al., 2009). A study conducted in Canada lead to findings that concluded that tobacco smoking and marijuana smoking is synergistic as they relate to the development of COPD. Meaning that they are more likely to work together then separate in creating the illness. However, the findings also suggest that tobacco smoking without smoking marijuana increased the risk as well. There was not enough information and the study was not big enough to reach any conclusions on those who smoke marijuana only. What all this suggests is that marijuana smoking is at most, no more dangerous then cigarette smoking and that it is most likely not as dangerous because the tobacco only smokers developed COPD at nearly the same rate as those who smoked both tobacco and marijuana.

            The long term mental effects of marijuana use, and the rhetoric that went with Anslinger's assumptions have long been proven false. Yet still today, the rhetoric is being pushed as facts. For example, John Walters, the director of the White House of National Drug Control Policy made the same claims that ruined Anslinger's career as the head of a very similar office, the FBN.  He sited, "studies long ago," which could lead to the reasonable conclusion that he is referring to Anslinger's own propaganda (Walters, 2005). Walters makes the same claims in his USA Today article that Anslinger made, saying marijuana use can lead to dependency, mental illness, and a public health threat. He also sites more recent studies and the conclusions that were derived from those. Psychology experts and doctors looked at some of these studies from a different perspective, one that might be a little less bias and goal oriented then the ones Walters mentions. It is also important to note that the alternative conclusions are never mentioned by Walters, begging the question of whether or not the Bush administration office holder had a different goal in mind then finding the truth.

            When the studies were reexamined, they found that those who at younger ages had non-psychotic psychiatric disorders had increased risk of developing schizophrenia, the mental disorder most associated by others to have been caused by marijuana use. The alternative explanation finders also studied the use of marijuana by those with the non-psychotic disorders and found they are more likely to use marijuana then those who do not have any disorders; "These data raise the possibility that future schizophrenia patients have Increased rates of premorbid behavioral disturbances and psychiatric diagnoses, and these, In turn, are associated with Increased rates of cannabis use" (Weiser & Noy, 2005). When looking at the history of government officials spurning marijuana use, combined with these alternative explanations, one can easily figure out whose findings are more likely accurate to the truth and whose findings show bias.

Part 4: Policing and Policy

            The most rampant problem with policing and policing policy as it relates to marijuana is the significant disparities in race. Minorities are the most arrested individuals in the US for marijuana violations, and marijuana violations lead the drug arrests in the US. New York city has gone through many phases on how they police marijuana from arresting and detaining, to arresting, gathering information, then releasing, all phases included a criminal record being written (Johnson, Golub, Dunlap, & Sifaneck, 2008). Possible alternatives, such as warn and destroy, a policy of having the offender destroy the marijuana on site without creating a criminal record and warning against future occurrences has not been tried. Policing policy tends to go along the line of if it is not working, it is not tough enough on the crime. This was displayed in the various laws that have been passed concerning drugs by congress as well as NYC's various ways of policing drug related offences. The option of decriminalizing has never been seriously considered.

Conclusion

            Marijuana and hemp have been a part of American culture since there has been a United States of America. During World War II the growth of Hemp was mandated to help cover the needs of the US military, just a few years after it was suggested the US would not need to grow it (Whitebread, 2005). Those who opposed the decriminalization of marijuana and hemp have sited various studies, most of which have lead to debatable conclusions or even simply lied about the effects of marijuana. This warrants the question of why would the government seek to misinform the public about why marijuana is illegal to the extent of creating fear? To this author, only one answer makes sense; the truth behind the laws are based in corporate and industry profit margins not in public health concerns.

            A substance that helped build the United States, hemp, was made illegal because of religious dogma, racism, and irrational fear. It is kept illegal because industry leaders fear the impact such an easily grown, cultivated, and processed plant would have on their industry. Nothing but rhetoric, logical fallacy, and propaganda keeps the people from realizing the truth behind the unjust laws. The majority in America does not feel the impact as much as minorities do so there is little reason for them to seek change.

 

 

 

References

Collica, K. & Furst, G. (2012). Crime and society. San Diego: Bridgepoint Education

Johnson, B. D., Golub, A., Dunlap, E., & Sifaneck, S. J. (2008). An analysis of alternatives to new york city's current marijuana arrest and detention policy. Policing, 31(2), 226-250. doi: http://dx.doi.org/10.1108/13639510810878703

Tan, W. C., M.B., Lo, C., Jong, A., Xing, L., FitzGerald, M. J., M.B., Vollmer, W. M., PhD., . . . Sin, Don D,M.D., M.P.H. (2009). Marijuana and chronic obstructive lung disease: A population-based study. Canadian Medical Association.Journal, 180(8), 814-20. Retrieved December 17, 2012 from ProQuest.

Walters, J. (2005, May 18). Marijuana policy just right. USA TODAY. Retrieved from http://search.proquest.com/docview/408982661?accountid=32521

Weiser, M. & Noy, S. (2005, March). Interpretting the association between cannabis use and increased risk of schizophrenia. Dialogues clin neurosci; (7)1: 81-85 Retrieved December 17, 2012 from: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3181719/

Whitebread, C. (1995). The history of the non-medical use of drugs in the United States. Retrieved December 13, 2012 from; http://www.druglibrary.org/schaffer/History/whiteb1.htm

           

Saturday, December 29, 2012

For Sarah

A mother's dying wish,
no pain upon her daughter.
A mother's dying wish,
no grief within her daughter.
A mother's dying wish,
no burden upon her daughter.
A mother's dying wish,
life, love, joy for her daughter.
 
A daughter's prayer,
let her stay, let her live.
A daughter's prayer,
end her pain, let her live.
A daughter's prayer,
heal her disease, let her live.
A daughter's prayer,
don't let me alone, let her live.
 
A friend's worried plea,
from this pain, move forward
A friend's worried plea,
cherish her memory, move forward.
A friend's worried plea,
share her stories, move forward.
A friend's worried plea,
bring her lessons, move forward.
 
A daughter's appeal,
for my friends, understand I try.
A daughter's appeal,
for my children, understand I try.
A daughter's appeal,
for my husband, understand I try.
A daughter's appeal,
help me all who understand, I try.
 
 

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Just Sayin'

The "Remember when's" of the youngest of the gettin' older crowd:

Remember when Vanilla Ice had a number one hit?

Remember when a quarter bag of weed was $25 no matter what the guy sellin' it to you wanted to name it?

Remember when you'd ask your friend to make a copy of a song on tape instead of texting it to you?

Remember when Testament, Slayer, Megadeth, and Metallica were the big four?

Remember when you bitched about gas prices being high at $1.60?

Remember when Nirvana changed how you felt about ALL grunge music?

Remember when I had long hair? (sneaky, sneaky....).

Remember when nerd was NOT synonymous with cool? (I am personally grateful for the change).

Remember when rock music um...rocked?

Remember when you couldn't pick up your favorite piece of modern technology that makes your life so much easier, funner, relaxing, etc. etc. because it hadn't been invented yet?  Yeah, it was cool and all back then and only seems more fun sometimes because we didn't have any remember when's and were livin' in the now with high hopes for the future. So, one could say livin' in the now is how to be happy, and maintaining high hopes for the future is how plan it (the future). Just sayin'....

Monday, August 13, 2012

Truth From a Hole.

Growing tired, ill with fatigue.
Fatigued by the indifference that
Lies in the hearts of a society which
Turns away from the responsibilities
It has. A society that grows indignant
Upon looking in the mirror I have spent
So long holding up, my spirit aches.

This painful burden is one I took upon
Myself. I was not asked, and never am
I thanked. For to show me gratitude
Would be to validate all that I have said,
All that I say, and all that I will say. To
Validate my claims, my accusations, is to
Admit failings and flaws too horrific.

Do I know more or better then all? Nay,
I surrender to the truth so that I may
See it. I kneel down before accountability
And reason and await for their instruction.
I do not pray, I do not ask for guidance. I
Do not give thanks. I do not do what I do
For the glory of anyone or anything.

I do not blame. Nor point fingers at others
For my own faults, failings, misdeeds, or
Pain. Yes, I did these things once, but have
Allowed cognizant evolution to do its work.
In my hubris I once thought myself beyond
Reachable heights for lesser mortals. Now, in
Humility I cry the echoes of truth from a hole.

Thursday, July 19, 2012

The Letter of the Law vs. Your Opinion


The following is the exact wording of the 1st Amendment in the US Constitution:



Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

Let’s examine this in the light of whether or not homosexuals should be allowed to get married and take advantage of the over 1,500 federal rights and obligations provided to married couples.



“Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion….” What this means is that our federal government is not allowed to make, create, pass, or allow any law that has a religious foundation. Based on this, the Defense of Marriage Act, enacted September 21, 1996 is constitutionally illegal. It defines marriage as between one man and one woman. Its purpose is to say that no state shall be forced to recognize the marriage, in this case same sex marriages, that may be legally recognized in another. It also says that the federal government will not recognize a same sex marriage. This law came to be due to pressure from religious groups.

“… or prohibiting the free exercise thereof….” This means that not only is congress not allowed to respect religious establishments through law; they are not allowed to create laws that prohibit the right of religious groups and individual from practicing their religion. This does not mean that religions are allowed to violate the rights of others; it just means they can, in their private lives, worship how they wish. They are allowed to believe how they want.

The remaining text of the 1st Amendment is irrelevant to the issue, including freedom of speech. Some like to argue that freedom of speech is important to the issue because people have the right to voice their opposition or support of gay marriage. Being allowed to voice your opinion on the issue is irrelevant, because the US constitution does not allow your religiously motivated opinion to matter.

So, it looks like depriving homosexuals the right to take advantage of the over 1,500 federally granted rights and obligations given to married couples is unconstitutional. The ONLY way to make this untrue is for all governments, federal, state, and other local governments to abolish any rights they give to married couples.

The matter is simple. The question is not, “what do you believe, in regards to morality, as it pertains to same sex marriage?” The questions are: What do you believe in regards to depriving your fellow US citizens of the same rights and obligations you take advantage of? Do you think its right to use your religion to oppress your fellow Americans? Do you think its right to allow laws to be passed and enforced that violate the first Amendment?

Your religious beliefs, no matter what they are, are irrelevant to the issue. But, the divisive subject is littered with religious connotation and opinion. Why? Because most religions believe without their religion, there would be no morals.

Monday, July 9, 2012

WTF Global Warming!!

The record breaking heat waves plowing through our country right now are causing some debates about “global warming.” I remember a few years ago the US had a particularly cold and snowy winter. All the people, mostly conservative republican types, who do not believe in “global warming”, touted the cold whether as “proof” that they were right. One can be quoted saying, “where are all the global warming freaks now?”

Now, this summer is the hottest our country has ever seen in its entire history. That’s right, it has never been hotter. Now, of course, all the “global warming” believers are doing the exact same nonsense that the nonbelievers did a few years ago. So, allow me to enlighten any who would use these two of years as examples or proof of anything.

Never will one particularly cold winter or particularly hot summer ever prove anyone’s beliefs to be accurate. To take either year as proof is committing logical fallacy. To put it in simpler terms; to do so would be like taking a survey of one person and giving that one answer a statistical value governing everyone. For example, if I asked you your favorite color and you said blue, and I went and said that everyone in the country likes the color blue I would be coming close to how ridiculous it would be to believe that one year of cold or heat means anything in the larger spectrum of millions of years.

As far as “global warming” is concerned, I really wish people would stop calling it that, it’s a misnomer. Call it climate change, because that is more accurate. During climate change the earth changes temperature, not always colder or hotter, but either, or. This depends on whether or not the earth is presently too hot or too cold. This is a naturally occurring phenomenon. This is how the earth maintains its ability to support life. This is scientific fact that cannot be disputed. To do so is either a stubborn refusal to accept reality, or just plain stupidity.

Now, does human activity affect climate change? That is what the real debate is about. Anyone who says no also refuses to accept reality. By this I mean they refuse to accept one of the principle rules of physics, “for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.” What we do is the cause, and what happens as a result is the effect. We pollute on massive scales, cause; the upper atmosphere pays the price with damage or destruction, effect. Will the damage we do have a great enough effect to cause Hollywood style consequences? Who knows? I for one am not willing to find out the hard way.

Finally, there are other concerns you should have about pollution as well, more pressing and urgent. One of these concerns is the simple fact that the very air you are polluting is the same air you are breathing. This isn’t always the case, sometimes the pollution you breathe in was actually spawned elsewhere and the wind blew it into your neighborhood, and of course the pollution we produce also gets blown half way around the world. Do I really have to tell you what happens when you breathe in pollution your whole life? Well, ask the person or people you know (and I know you know someone) who has an upper respiratory illness. No, not all cases have been directly caused by pollution, but breathing in toxins, as any smoker can tell you, weakens the lungs. Weak lungs develop illnesses and diseases. It’s that simple.

Thursday, June 28, 2012

My thoughts on "Obamacare"

Ok, everyone seems all up in arms about the “Obamacare” thing. So, here’s my shortly stated opinion. Anyone who thinks guaranteeing their children will be able to receive the medical treatment they need in spite of their own financial situation is a bad thing…. Well, let’s just say you really haven’t completely thought it through, have you? Oh, and let’s not forget that the government, which controls what drugs are legal, made, etc, and so on through the use of the FDA, is not about to pay “top dollar,” so the government paid for health care will drive the cost down of ALL healthcare in the country because those still independent industries that you seem to think actually don’t tell you what doctors to see or what pills to take (they do by the way…), because the “free market” must still compete with the government for customers. Here’s another kicker you did not think about. New government run healthcare (insurance really) will need staff, and a lot of it, in order to function. So, it will create jobs!!!!

Oh, you complain… “I don’t want my tax dollars paying for abortions!!” or “I don’t want to be forced to help pay for someone else’s medical bills!” To that I say, “Shut up, stupid!” First, tax dollars, or federally run health insurance would never cover elective procedures or surgeries, ever! Not even the hated “liberals” would want that, in spite of what Faux News tells you. Second, if you think of it as “your” tax dollars, then why the hell are the rest of us paying taxes?! Listen you arrogant shit, most who say this earn probably somewhere along the lines of $30k-$50k a year or so. You pay MAYBE $12k-$23k a year in taxes (and that’s a big maybe because I’m sure most of you earn less then $30k a year, I was just estimating high). Compare that to the near $1.3 TRILLION in tax money collected for 2011 federal tax year…so far (don’t forget those the IRS will go after)(Source: http://www.usgovernmentrevenue.com/year_revenue_2011USbn_13bs1n#usgs302). How the hell are you going to even assume 100% financial responsibility when you paid, at most, so little percentage wise that you most likely do not own the type of calculator needed to figure out what exact percentage you actually did pay!? (side note, neither do I…).

Finally, there is the argument that it will drive taxes up. Well, if it does, I’d be surprised if it was enough for us to even feel it. Why is that you say? Because my simple minded friend, YOUR NOT PAYING FOR INSURANCE FROM AN INSURANCE COMPANY ANYMORE! Well, if you take the government option anyway, you’ll save money there. You see, the pretax money you pay to the insurance company (pretax if you’re smart anyway) with every paycheck will no longer be needed. Now, even if you just break even, you are still better off because once again, you can now guarantee your children that they will be able to get healthcare treatment they may need in spite of global economic conditions. Can some of you say that now? I’m sure there are a few who are unemployed and/or uninsured with kids right now. Do you love them enough to put ignorance aside? Do you love them enough to say “I don’t care if the media labels it “socialism” because its good for my kids now, and in the future. It’ll be good for my grandkids, and great grandkids. Why? Because instead of listening to partisan rhetoric spawned from a need to kill anything that may threaten corporate profit, you chose to just stop and think about it for half a damn second.

Saturday, June 9, 2012

10 Thing Men Wish Women Knew

This post is in response the the article posted here:
http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspxarticleid=11865&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=1338500

I found this article to be, well, stupid. So I responded to it with my own list. Best if you read the original first, then mine. That way you will see that each numbered one of mine, responds directly to the identically numbered one of the original article.

1. We play the “waiting game” because you send mixed messages. If we call too soon, you think us desperate, if we don’t call soon enough, you think we are uninterested or playing a game. Here’s the deal women, you play games, men usually just do what interests them at the time. You want us to think of you when you’re not around or want us to call you sooner, how about you call us? How about you stop playing the “waiting for him to call” game. We are not phone people in general, so when you call, don’t sit there and expect us to want to chat; make plans with us and we will chat when we are together.

2. If you want to date casually, or are looking for a relationship, don’t wait for us to tell you what we are looking for, we won’t do that. Like I said, if we are with you and spending time with you, that means we have interest in you. Stop blaming us every time YOU get a mixed message when half the time messages are NOT being sent by us. Most of the time, we mean what we say. We are logical human beings, so stop interpreting what we say to mean something other then what we have said, that’s just stupid.

3. We do not give two shits about fashion, for the most part. All we care about is if it comfortable or appropriate for the situation. The ONLY men who care are douche bags who dress up to go clubbing trying to get laid. Strangely enough, those are the men you go home with…wanna talk about sending mixed signals still?

4. We do not always want to spend our hard earned money on you. We like to spend it on ourselves too. So if you call us cheap because we don’t buy you things, get a job and buy your own crap. On a date, we will pay, which means ladies, you don’t get a say so on where we eat or what we do. Most of the time we will do ok, beside women, I thought you wanted to get to know us, not our wallets.

5. Women, we just want to be left alone if we are not doing something together. And we know that pisses you off. Here’s what you really need to know here: We think that if we do not spend every waking hour we can attending to your desires, you will go bat shit crazy on us with your over emotional nonsense. Here’s the kicker; a lot of the times, we are right about that. You want your independence, but for some reason get all pissy if we leave you alone for too long.

6. You are not as smart or intuitive as you think. Again, you read signals where there aren’t any. You think we are as emotionally complex as you. We are not. We lie because that is human nature, so get off your high horses and pedestals you have put yourself on and admit you lie just as much, if not more then men.

7. We don’t want you to be our mother. It is YOU who almost always wants to assume that role. You see flaws in us and start playing mother on your own. This is actually really annoying to men. It makes us wanna choke you. So stop doing it, especially seeing you claim you don’t want to.

8. We don’t give a shit about the little things. You want us to notice them, point them out at the time. We will remember them…hopefully, come time to “impress” you.

9. Men are not “quick” to end relationships. We actually think about it before we even show “signs” that we are considering it. Again, we do not “signal” the end, we just end it. Its practical and more efficient that way, and if it hurts your little ol’ feelings, get over it. That’s life. Do not lose respect for us for doing this, that’s stupid. Lose respect for the man who drags on relationships long after they lose interest, only to make it harder on you later when they actually do end it.

10. We think you live by a double standard, and we are just dealing with that as best we can. We know, “we need to talk” means you wanna bitch about us to us. We know that in order to make you feel loved by us, that we need to show it. We know all the crap on the article that spawned this blog. Unfortunately for you, you think that because we ignore some of your stupid “things to know” we do not know. Sometimes its just that we don’t care enough about the relationship to follow your standards.

Thursday, June 7, 2012

A Stoner’s Guide to Politics.

A Stoner’s Guide to Politics. This is a short, bulleted guide to politics as a stoner might see it. I wrote it for fun; I hope you like it. Yes, it is supposed to be funny…. • Legalize it! o Of course this would have to be first. Any stoner would think it ideal to be able to purchase and smoke weed, to get high, legally. However their misguided motives might be, they do have a point. Hemp, used to be legal. The only reason it was made illegal is because when Mexican immigrants came up many, many, many years ago and showed that you can also smoke it and get high, the white folks found it distasteful… ‘cause the dirty Mexicans were doing it. So, to keep little white kids from doing it, they made the, oh so reactionary and stupid decision to make the entire plant illegal in the US. <<< that’s a fact, look it up.  Why it remains illegal is a mystery. I think its because the plant, that can be used for many things would quickly put out of business, many other whole industries because of its easily grown and processed nature. (It fricken grows anywhere!). The many reasons it should be legal are that very thing, as well as its medicinal and recreational uses. Yes, if it were legal…. No, it can’t single handedly save the economy, but it is the one thing that can even come close to that kind of economic potential! • Um……

Saturday, November 12, 2011

Game Review: CoD: MW3

Ok, seeing no one took the challenge, I’m moving on to something a little lighter. This will be a game review of the new Call of Duty game, Modern Warfare 3.

The game setting is world war 3. It starts out with an exciting battle in New York City. As far as the single player campaign is concerned, it’s a pretty good game. The one flaw I can really see in it is how short it is. I, being an average gamer, beat it in just under 5 hours. Not worth the $65 price tag, but still a fun game there.

Now, for the multiplayer portion of the game; I can honestly say I have never been more disappointed with a much hyped game then I am with MW3’s multiplayer system. Here are the pros and cons of it:

Maps:
The maps are possibly the worst set of maps I have ever seen in a CoD game. The creator’s of the game actually touted the maps as a unique and improved feature. Well, they were full of crap. The few maps they actually have are complete crap. Poorly designed with loads of blind corners and infested with camper friendly spots. Rushers are being owned by campers, strategic players are getting shot in the back, side, from up high, and everywhere else. The only strategy that works in these maps is camping, and that is a violation of FPS game etiquette. So, if you like to camp, this is your game. Unfortunately, with everyone camping, nothing gets done.

Hit Detection:
Again, this is another sore spot for me. On the PS3, the hit detection is terrible. In some cases its spot on, and in others it is like you are shooting at thin air when aiming down the site at someone standing a foot in front of you just letting you shoot at them. I do not know if it is a missed glitch in the game or just PS3’s crappy PlaystationNetwork, but I’m willing to bet it is a little of both.

Classes & Leveling:
This is a toss up. Some good features, some bad. MW3 has introduced “Strike Packages.” This is actually a pretty awesome new feature. On any class you create you have the options of what strike packages fits your play style or role in your team. The strike packages are designed well, and actually make for an interesting mix. Included in leveling is “weapon proficiencies.” This feature, while it has its good aspects, overall is pretty much stupid. The reason why it’s stupid is because it guarantees new player frustration. In 6 months, most players will be at max level except new players, who will have a tough time leveling up because while they are using lower level proficiencies or none at all, the people who bought the game at a midnight release will be tearing them up with unlock proficiencies. It has a good thought behind it, making players earn the cool stuff, but it will definitely kill sales later on when people switch to BF3.

Classes & Leveling pt. 2:
The major issue I have with the whole system is in two parts. First, it is overly complex, as you can tell from part 1. Not only are you leveling yourself, but for each new weapon unlock that you like, you have to level the weapon to make it worth using. Second, the max level cap is way too high. The high max level does two things. First, it makes it take a while to max out; this is actually a good thing that keeps you playing. Second, it slows down the new weapon, perk, etc. unlocking to a crawl. This is a bad thing. When you unlock something at a new level, you want a new gun or attachment, not a stupid title or emblem. People want to level up at a good pace, they want to reach that max level and have the entire arsenal at their disposal so they can actually compete. The leveling system makes this a pain in the ass.

Lag:
I have asked around to ensure this wasn’t just an issue with me, and its not. On the PS3 there are lag issues. You can be playing the entire first half of a match with smooth game play, then all of a sudden a ton of lag issues just pop up, seemingly at random. On Black Ops, this was not an issue so I have the feeling this is a game specific problem that should have been addressed in testing. Of course, I’m sure they tested on LAN games, so they would not have discovered this. I guess its time for them to start testing in closed online systems.

Perks:
In all the pre-release hype they mentioned “New Perks!!!” Well, yeah, if you consider the same perks with new names “new perks.” They have made some old perks “death streaks.” But these were perks that not many really liked, like what they call “final stand” is just CoD4’s “last stand” and Black Ops’ “Second Chance” perks. If it is going to be in the game, which I think it should have just been done away with, it is put in the right spot, a death streak perk.

Death Streaks:
These are just stupid. Hey bad players, they reward your failures too with “Death Streaks!” If you die a lot, you are given little boosts to help you not die or help you kill the player that just kicked your ass. Death streaks are and will always be a terrible idea. You do not reward failure in life; you should definitely NOT reward it in a CoD game.

11 Ideas to Improve Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 3:
1. Get rid of death streaks. Again, this was a terrible idea and the designer who came up with it should be fired or made to make non-FPS games.
2. Redesign the maps to be less, camper friendly and more strategic player friendly. Black Ops did this very well. Yes, people camped in black ops, but strategic players and rushers always tore the campers up if they had at least an average level of skill.
3. Redesign the weapon proficiencies to be unlocked by weapon type. Right now they need to be unlocked with each specific weapon. Most players that I know stick to a weapon type or two, and should not have to start over again when they unlock the next weapon in the weapon type they prefer.
4. Simplify the class designs a bit. Yes, the personalization of the complex system can be nice, but it is a bit too complex. FPS games do not need to be complex to be fun. In fact, the over complex design in MW3 makes leveling a chore, and that is bad. Leveling should be fun, playing should be fun.
5. Lower the max level cap to what CoD players are used to. Max level does not need to be so high.
6. Get rid of titles and emblems. They are pointless, purely cosmetic, and simply do not belong in an FPS.
7. Get rid of ALL camper friendly areas in the maps. I absolutely HATE campers; if I am in a match with them, I make it my mission to make that match as aggravating as possible in hopes that they will rage quit. They are annoying, and make the game boring. If you are a camper, here’s a bit of wisdom for you that might make you think twice before continuing to camp: YOU ARE 100% PREDICTABLE AND IF YOU GET IN A MATCH WITH A PLAYER AS EQUALLY SKILLED AS ME (WHICH ISN’T HARD) YOU WILL DIE A LOT MORE THEN YOU KILL!! So, stop being so damn predictable, which doesn’t mean find a new camp spot after I kill you because I know all your stupid spots in every map, I will find you, I will kill you, and then I will rinse and repeat. I will skip rushers just to get to you. I will make you hate me. (wow, that felt good, lol).
8. To discourage camping, how about some destructible environment?!?! It is very stupid that I can call in a bomber and it not destroy buildings.
9. Fix the damn hit detection and lag issues already!
10. Make the weapon unlocks make sense. Here’s what I mean. If I am using a weapon for a while, and I unlock the next one in the weapon type, the next one should be BETTER then the one I’m using! I shouldn’t unlock a weapon that is weaker in damage, accuracy, rate of fire, etc. Why the hell would I switch to the next sub machine gun just because it has a better range but everything else is weaker?
11. Get rid of Sniper Rifles and LMG’s. Yes, I actually like these weapons, and occasionally used them in previous games. Unfortunately though, they just give people more incentive to camp. Oh, and if you think its not camping just because you are sniping, uh, you’re wrong. Camping is camping, regardless of the weapon you use. If these could be left in the game and people don’t camp, I would say keep them, but too many people find a spot, and sit there the entire match camping a door or field of vision. The campers ruin the sniper rifle and lmg.

Note: Yes, I know this reads like a rage letter to campers. But that does not invalidate my points.

“You camp, you die!” – Twitch_QQ

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

20 Things Americans Need to Stop Doing.

1. Stop blaming the devil for your own faults.
2. Stop blaming immigrants because you can’t find a job.
3. Stop blaming Obama for an economic crisis that started before he took office.
4. Stop blaming Bush for the gas prices.
5. Stop using religion to oppress gay Americans. (Didn’t you learn anything when you did this to women and black Americans?).
6. Stop watching Fox News, MSNBC, and every other news station for that matter.
7. Stop asking the poor of America to bear the burden of economic recovery (That is just backwards and stupid, they are frickin poor. That’d be like asking the starving man to be your waiter).
8. Stop giving tax breaks galore to the rich. (They actually can afford to bear the burden of the economic recovery, but choose not too).
9. Stop using logical fallacies to “prove” your points.
10. Stop allowing logical fallacies to convince you of complete nonsense.
11. Stop trying to mix your religious ideas in with federal policies; that is fucking illegal and unconstitutional.
12. Stop allowing yourself to be controlled by “popular opinion.”
13. Stop letting other people tell you what to think. (Refer to number 6 for an example).
14. Stop using the passing lane on highways as your personal race track.
15. Stop driving below the speed limit. (If you do this, you’re just an asshole).
16. Stop letting senior citizens drive. (Refer to number 15).
17. Stop letting big business control the state of the economy. (Refer to number 8).
18. Stop calling black Americans who have never even been to Africa “African Americans.” They are just Americans dammit! You don’t see me asking to be called a European American!
19. Stop allowing a difference in political ideology to build walls of distrust, arrogance, and hate.
20. Stop reading stupid lists that tell you how to behave! (Hey, at least you’ll listen to this one now that you’re done reading this list).

Monday, August 15, 2011

Essay I receied a perfect score on. Plus its informative!

Effective Listening:
Overcoming Our Perceptual Filters

Introduction

An individual’s view of the world and the people in it is a unique perspective specific to that individual. This suggests that “the reason people react differently to the same situations is that each person comes from a different background and views the situation in terms of his own experiences” (DeRamus, B. 1990). This can cause complications in a lot of situations, especially when attempting to communicate. We can say something with an intended meaning but the listener perceives a completely different message then the one we wished to convey.

One way to over come this barrier to communication is through the use of effective listening. “Listening refers to a complex set of interrelated activities including: apparent attentiveness, non-verbal and verbal behavior, attitudes, memory, and behavioral responses” (Helms, M., Haynes, P. 1992). Effective listening is more then staying silent as another speaks, it is actively pursuing to understand what the speakers intended message is. In this essay, I will describe perceptual filters, and how we can use effective listening to overcome this barrier to communication.

Part 1: Perception and Perceptual Filters

Our individual perceptions lead us to come to conclusions on not only what people say, but on everything we see and hear. If we are in a crowd and that crowd witnesses a car accident in the street, we will all have a different opinion on who caused the accident and how it was caused. These distinctive opinions come from who we are as people, what we have experienced in our lives, how we were raised, our cultural backgrounds, gender, our moral and ethical beliefs, and in the case of the accident how we drive and perceive other drivers.

“Even though we detect our surroundings in the same way through eyes, ears, nose, skin, and tongue, our brains actively filter that incoming information so that it "makes sense" according to our individual values and beliefs” (“People's perceptual filters,” 2008). What this means is that if two or more people hear the same bit of information their brains will structure that message into something that makes sense to them. For example, when three people, a working man, a church leader, and a CEO of a health insurance company are told the pros and cons of a single payer system type of universal health care they filter this information to receive three very different messages. The working man might receive the message of no more medical bills, no more worrying about their family’s health care costs, higher taxes but no longer paying for health insurance, and even a possible future job helping to manage the government ran health care system. A church leader might hear tax dollars paying for “sinful” procedures such as abortions or gender reassignment surgery. An insurance company’s CEO would almost definitely hear loss of a job, the destruction of his company, his thousands of employees losing their jobs, the stockholders losing millions, and government meddling into the free market.

Our perceptions can also be manipulated. In advertising companies try to make us see their products or services as the highest quality available. The professionals in the field are called Brand Managers, and they tend to be very good at their jobs. “Brand managers are seeking out the help of those who understand the psychology of individuals and the psychology of the mass that constitutes contemporary society today” (“It’s Perception Management…,” 2003). What this means is that Brand Managers specialize in mass manipulation, specifically as it relates to the product or service they are attempting to sell. They want us to believe their product or service is the highest quality, has the lowest price, or even how a specific competitor’s product or service is inferior to theirs. They use soft, friendly, and positive language and imagery to sell you on their product or service. They use harsh or mocking language and imagery to attempt to make you think negatively of their competitors. For example, a popular paper towel commercial theme is to show how one paper towel can easily pick up a spill with the competitor’s product leaving some of the mess or even just pushing it around without soaking anything up. Trash bag commercials show their bag as strong and easy to carry, while showing the competitor’s bag tearing and awkward. This manipulation is made very evident in infomercials. These thirty minute or longer commercials like to show how inconvenient life is without their product by showing people attempting to do things without their products and failing miserably. They exaggerate how hard the simplest of tasks are without the use of their products to the point of ridiculousness. In some of these infomercials they are selling courses, and exaggerate how well you’ll do or how rich you’ll become by either hiring actors or obtaining testimonials from people who have done exceptionally well with their course. They never tell you the success rate of their students however, knowing that the successful student is rare.

Another popular form of perception manipulation in advertising is attempting to convince you that you are saving money by spending more. They use terms like “package” or “multi-policy discount.” What is done here is the company with package several of their products or services together, and then gives you a marginally discounted rate on the package as a whole. They want you to think you are saving money, but you are actually spending more, and typically on extra stuff you do not particularly need or desire. In fact, if you were to buy the same exact products or services from separate companies, buying what is cheapest, you are more likely to spend less money then you would on a company’s prepackaged deal.

As you can see, perception is a strong and influential part of how we view the world and how we receive information that is being communicated to us. It is influenced not only by our own ideas and beliefs, but can also be influenced by external sources. It is important to be able to overcome these influences and barriers to accurately understand the intended message someone is trying to send, as well as see the truth behind the external manipulation of our perception. One vital resource we have in this struggle is our listening skills. Through the use of effective listening, we can overcome these barriers.

Part 2: Effective Listening

When someone is talking to us, trying to share some kind of information they deem important enough to tell us, it is important that we listen to what they have to say. Our perceptual filters can hinder this, but also contributing to the lack of understanding are things like indifference to what the other person is saying and inattentiveness. Sometimes, in the heat of an argument, we even tune out what the other is saying, and are just waiting for our turn to speak instead of listening to them. Also, people do not always, and in fact rarely, say exactly what they mean. Combine all this with our perceptual filters and we can easily see why miscommunication is an all too common barrier to understanding.

The first key to understanding is effective listening. In an organization, “failure to listen can result in letters having to be retyped, orders returned, appointments rescheduled, timetables revised, and lost productivity and profits” (Helms, M., Haynes, P. 1992). In our personal lives, it can result in many things, such as arguments, being late for appointments, missing out on fun activities, and more. We must be able to effectively listen to the information being presented to us if we have any hope of understanding the intended message.

Effective listening is active listening. Active listening is more then eye contact and paying attention. It is participating in the transfer of information through verbal and nonverbal queues about the information. It is maintaining the proper receptive attitude. It is committing to memory what the speaker has presented. And it is responding with the proper behavior to show that you understood the intended message.

Active listening through the use of verbal and non-verbal queues is important because it does two things. First, it shows the speaker that you are actually listening to them. A nod of the head, an appropriately time smile or other facial expression, and even making sure your body language shows you are listening, such as not crossing your arms or looking away or at your watch. Second, it helps to make sure you understand what the speaker is trying to say. Verbal responses, such as questions or rephrasing what has been said as you understand it shows interest and that you are trying to understand. It also tells the speaker whether the intended message is received. For example, your boss tells you they want you to take care of an important client. By “take care of” the boss could be implying many different things, and it is up to you as the listener to make sure you know what he or she means. The boss could mean make sure they have a fun visit to your organization or make sure they get fed and are set up in a nice hotel. They could also mean to handle all of the client’s business needs they have with your organization, such as any questions they may have or orders they want to make.

A proper receptive attitude is just as important as asking questions and giving nonverbal signs you are listening. You cannot allow emotional states to influence how well you are listening. If you are maintaining eye contact and nodding, but allowing yourself to become angry with the speaker or a bad mood in general effect how much information you receive, you are not effectively listening. If your opinions differ from that of the speaker, you should not allow this to effect how well you listen either. As the listener you must be able to put aside these negative influences on how well you listen, so that you can receive the message, and give the verbal and nonverbal responses necessary to achieve understanding.

Even if you receive the message as it was intended, showed the proper verbal and nonverbal responses, and maintained a receptive attitude, if you fail to commit to memory what the speaker has said you have failed at your part in the transfer of information. Everyone remembers information differently, some use memory tricks, while others just have a good memory. What ever works for you as the listener, you must use to make sure you remember the message a speaker was trying to send. For example, if a neighbor asks you to walk his dog twice a week while he is on a business trip, and all the active and effective listening skills were used to identify what days, what times, where the leash is, and other details that pertain to this, if you agree to walk the dog but you forget to, or forget the time or day, or to give the dog water after the walk, you have failed in your part, and also jeopardized the friendship, or even the dog’s health.

Most messages we transfer to other people have an intended behavioral response we want from a listener. You ask someone what time it is, you intend for them to tell you the time. If you ask your child to clean their room, you intend for them to clean their room. Even if you are just telling a story about something funny that happened earlier in the day, you expect or intend the behavioral response to be the listener’s laughter. As the listener, you should be prepared to show a behavioral response to the information you have received and made sure you understood. For example, if your boss asks you to file some paperwork by a certain time, your behavioral response will be to file the paperwork. If a client mentions they are hungry and like a certain type of food, they are looking for you to take them to a restaurant that serves that kind of food, or at least want you to recommend one and provide directions.

Some of the effective listening skills discussed, we use and do without really thinking about it. The behavioral response is something we do not really have to think about doing, we naturally do it. Even the committing to memory of an intended message is usually something we do naturally, unless it is a lot of information that needs special attention to remember. However, verbal and nonverbal queues and maintaining a receptive attitude are things that require more effort on the listener’s part. It takes time and effort to simply get in the practice of doing them, and even more effort to do them and stay in the practice.

By effectively and actively listening, we do several things. We maintain the open lines of communication between us and a speaker. We show the speaker that we respect what they have to say. We overcome our perceptual filters to make sure we accurately understand what the speaker is intending to send. And we make sure that outside influences have little to no effect on how we perceive the truth behind a manipulative message.

Conclusion

Our perceptual filters that are created by our beliefs, values, cultural backgrounds, gender, and personal opinions, influence how we receive and interpret information. We use these filters to make sense of the informational stimuli we are constantly receiving from the world and the people around us. We witness an event from a perspective completely unique to ourselves, and would tell someone of that event different from the person standing next to us. We perceive what people say to us in a unique and personal way too. Two people receiving the same information interpret that information differently from one another, and have two different responses to that information.

Effective listening helps us overcome our perceptual filters when trying to receive a speaker’s intended message. It helps us understand when someone is trying to use our perceptual filters to manipulate us. By using verbal and nonverbal queues, have a receptive attitude, committing a message to memory, and showing the proper behavioral response, we show a speaker we want to receive an intended message, are prepared to receive it, value it, and will respond appropriately.

Using the knowledge of our own perceptual filters and how to overcome them in everyday life through effective listening will help us in the working world too. In any organization, communication is important. Stepping into a new company or new position within a company prepared with good communication skills that are founded in good listening skills; we are prepared to handle the new jobs ahead of us. Communication skills deeply rooted in good, effective listening skills helps us in life, and prepares us for success in any organization.










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